Giving Thanks: Easy 5 Finger Gratitude Exercise and Ritual!

With so much going on in the world we need tools to help us thrive, or at least de-stress… So, with World Gratitude Day this week, we’re highlighting this easy gratitude exercise for you. And it’s fabulous for adults, kids—and even younger children.

Because what we’re grateful for teaches us what’s most important to us. And in these uncertain times—gratitude helps us be more resilient as we learn to appreciate what we might usually take for granted.

Gratitude and Fierce Kindness…

This exercise is one of our key Fierce Kindness rituals—and helps us create a life we love.

There are two supporting ways to create a life you love: 1) Taking action to create the life you want and 2) Seeing the life you already have in a more appreciative light. Gratitude is all about the latter.

Why not make it a Family Ritual?

Gratitude is a great habit for everyone to carry through life. You could make this:

• An annual ritual for Thanksgiving Dinner.
• A weekly Sunday Morning ritual over Breakfast or Brunch.
  Or even a
• A daily ritual over dinner—and make it about noticing the small things.

Then once you’ve all shared your “5 Things”, go deeper and simply sit for 3 breaths, feeling the gratitude before proceeding with your meal.

But don’t “abuse” Gratitude!

Gratitude is an important practice—but we mustn’t force it. It can be a great way to take the helicopter view and shift our energy to a more positive state, but let’s not abuse gratitude by using it to override what we really feel.

When we’re feeling sad, overwhelmed, frustrated or upset—what we feel is our “truth” in that moment.

And we really want to avoid teaching our children to stuff down their “negative” emotions and just be grateful!

Instead, when we make gratitude a healthy habit or ritual—it becomes a positive way of looking at our life and world.

So, what should we do when we feel down or upset?

Well, it’s important to be:

1. A—Aware of what we really feel
2. A—Acknowledge it, and then
3. A—Allow it, before we do any work (like gratitude) to feel “better”.

For more on this see The 3 As Process here.

What we’re aiming at is that—especially when life is challenging—we can look at what we might normally take for granted, and choose to be grateful for these small things.

Wrap-up

I hope you enjoyed this super easy gratitude exercise. This short, powerful ritual is the ultimate way to create a life you love—by loving the life you already have.

And you really can do it anywhere, any time.

I’ll leave you with a couple of questions to ponder:

• When could you add this easy gratitude exercise to your daily routine?
• What other times can you think of when you could use this gratitude exercise?

If you liked this easy gratitude exercise, you may also like:

• 27 Inspirational Gratitude Quotes & More!
• 5 Tools to Build Your Resilience as the Seasons Change (and COVID Continues…)
• (How to) Accept Reality: A Powerful Way to Feel Better in Difficult Situations!

Remember: Change the world, start with you!