The Fierce Kindness Community

A Kinder World Starts with You!

You give so much to others: this is where you are seen and restored.

We’re a community of kind humans supporting each other as we learn to be kinder to ourselves, others—and purposefully create a kinder world!

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First Month Free | $19/mth (or $199/yr) for life | Cancel anytime

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The Fierce Kindness Community

A Kinder World Starts With You!

You give so much to others: this is where you are seen and restored.

We’re a community of kind humans supporting each other as we learn to be kinder to ourselves, others—and purposefully create a kinder world!

Join us at the Kindness Community Button

First Month Free | $19/month (or $199/year) for life | Cancel anytime

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Connect to kindred spirits from around the world!

One year from now, you’ll look back and think: “I’m kinder, more grounded… and more hopeful, plus I have a whole new circle of friends!”

If you care deeply—you belong here.

Why We’re Here

The world feels heavy right now. Find connection with people who get it!

Are you:

  • Hard on yourself, exhausted or overstretched?
  • Disheartened by what you see happening in the world?
  • Giving kindness to everyone else, but struggle to offer it to yourself?

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed and lose hope when you care deeply about your family, communities and the state of the world. 

This community will help you:

  • Feel hopeful, empowered and part of the solution
  • Be kinder to yourself, less self-critical and more resilient
  • Live with more ease, set healthier boundaries + do less people-pleasing
Welcome to the Fierce Kindness Community!

Join a values-led online space where people from all over the world come together to learn, connect and act with kindness.

This is not social media as you know it. It’s private, with no ads, no trolls, no algorithms—and no judgement 🙂

Here’s what you get:

Your Resource & Inspiration Library

Always growing! Self-kindness tools, personal growth worksheets, kindness exercises & more.

Guided Meditations

Gentle practices to calm, reconnect and unwind.

Training & Courses

Inspiration and training to get to know yourself deeply and integrate kindness towards yourself and others.

The Kindness Wall

An uplifting space to share stories of giving, receiving and witnessing kindness.

Exclusive Monthly Events

Kindness Learning Circles, Coaching Exercise Hours, Meet ‘n’ Greets and fabulous Guest Speakers to connect and learn together.

Plus

Member Discounts: Save on training + workshops (coming soon).

Event Replays: Catch up anytime you can’t attend live.

And Even More…

  • Our 1000 Random Acts of Kindness Challenge (Ongoing!) Join members recording daily acts of kindness and creating global kindness ripples together.
  • The Gratitude Wall: a fun space to record and celebrate joys, boost positivity and feel uplifted.
  • Meet Kindness Activists Around the World. Connect with members from 30+ countries.

Check out our Welcome Page!

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This isn’t just a membership, it’s:

A Sanctuary: a kind and safe space to rest, reflect and grow.

A Kindness Launchpad where your kindness is supported and amplified.

A Daily Reminder that hope, courage, generosity and integrity still exist.

What Members are Saying

Our community is full of helpers, healers and caregivers, coaches, counselors, leaders and changemakers and all around kind humans. Here’s what they have to say:

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Deanie Marin-Lucchesi
L&D Pro & Coach, Avid Soccer Player

As a full-time working mum of two, self-care often gets neglected. The Fierce Kindness Community has given me a valuable space to pause, concentrate on my own personal growth and learn from the shared experiences of others—as well as being a vital reminder that it’s essential to be kind to myself! 

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Valerie Alawiye
Certified Professional Coach & Author

Since joining the Fierce Kindness community, I’ve noticed that I’ve become more intentional about proactively seeking opportunities to be kind, not only to others—but also to myself.

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Kitty Burke
Disorder Recovery Coach

This community gives me a beautiful sense of global belonging. Being in a space where we explore kindness together—curiously, openly, joyfully—feels both meaningful and surprisingly fun.

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Kim Krantz
Author & Writing Coach

Since joining the Fierce Kindness community, I’ve noticed a change in the way I go through my day. I speak to friends, family and even strangers with a new intention of kindness and gratitude. I’m working on being kinder to myself too. The community meetings offer wonderful camaraderie and are a great source for learning new tips.

Get a Quick Tour of the Community (5 mins or less)!

Pricing

$19/month OR $199/year
Your first month is completely free.

No contracts. Cancel anytime. Your price never increases.

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Why Join Now?

  • Lock in your special rate forever.
  • Help shape the community as we grow.
  • Become part of a movement that’s bigger than all of us!

Lock in the ✨ Kindness Trailblazer ✨ Rate for Life
$19/month or $199/year PLUS your first month free (limited time).

Why Fierce Kindness Matters

Fierce Kindness isn’t fluffy: it’s powerful, grounding and energising! It begins with caring for yourself—so your kindness can ripple outward with strength and integrity.

Right our world really needs the extra Fierce: added courage, intention and sustainability.

And we have Fierce Kindness’ 4Cs to help you do just that.

More than just a community, this is the beginning of a movement.

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The Fierce Kindness 4 Cs
 You Belong Here!
  • You don’t have to do this alone 🙂
  • This is a place where it’s safe to just be you.
  • And it all starts with learning kindness—towards yourself.
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First Month Free | $19/month for life (or $199/year)

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We’re excited to welcome you!

FAQ

This community is designed to fit into real life. Most members spend 15–30 minutes a few times a week engaging with conversations and prompts that matter most to them.

Some members pop in for 5-10 minutes a day to check-in and get their kindness “fix” and reminder!

There are 3-4 optional monthly events that are usually 45-60 minutes, and as a paid member you get access to any recordings so you can watch or listen on your own schedule!

Importantly, there’s no pressure to “keep up”—you get to choose how deeply and how often you participate. But obviously the more you engage, the more connection and value you’ll get.

As soon as you join, you’ll get access to everything. And first you’ll be guided to our Welcome Page which has a set of simple steps to follow so you know exactly where to start.

In addition you’ll get a series of welcome emails to help you begin to connect.

In particular you’ll be invited to introduce yourself, explore the key spaces and connect with community members.

And when you’re ready, we have a Monthly “Meet ‘n Greet” event for our members, which many existing community members come to as well for connection!

You absolutely can join the Free Fierce Kindness Community—it’s a beautiful place to connect, be inspired and stay in the conversation.

The Paid Membership is for members who want more depth, structure and consistency in how they practice kindness and integrate it into their lives.

Inside the Paid Membership, you additionally get:

  • Access to The Gratitude Wall, a dedicated space to anchor reflection and positive momentum
  • Exclusive live events designed for deeper connection and real-time support, including Kindness in Practice Circles (coming soon) and Coaching Exercise Hours
  • A growing Resource Library to support you beyond the conversations
  • A growing Meditation Library for ongoing grounding and calm
  • Paid Member-only Discounts on training and paid events
  • A watch-anytime replay library of all recorded events, so you never miss out

In short:

  • The free community is about fun and inspiration
  • The paid membership is about connection, support and practice that leads to sustained change

Currently we have 3 regular events, and as we’re pretty new here we’re still finalising our time slots.

Our regular events are on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays, often at 9am PST/12pm EST as this reaches most members around the world. Occasionally we will go a little earlier or later.

  1. Guest Speakers – 1st week of the month (days/times vary according to our guest’s schedule)
  2. Coaching Exercise Hour – 2nd week of the month
  3. Monthly Member Meet ‘n Greet – 3rd week of the month
  4. Kindness in Practice Circles (coming soon) – 3rd week of the month

As a paid member, you get access to all events.

  • Currently, only our Guest Speakers are recorded, and paid members have access to the Event Recordings Library.
  • The Monthly Meet ‘n Greets are Live only as they are intended to create real-time connection.
  • The Coaching Exercise Hours are also Live only, due to the personal nature of the discussions. This may change with member feedback.

Please Note: If you would like a Coaching Exercise Hour or Meet ‘n Greet for your timezone or schedule, please let us know and we can explore adding an extra session or time in, as there will likely be other people in your situation!

Your privacy matters. This Fierce Kindness Community is a private, members-only space, so your posts, comments, and profile are invisible to the public and Google etc.

The community is hosted on Circle, a professional community platform that meets high industry standards for data security. Circle has completed a SOC 2 Type 2 audit, confirming its strong cybersecurity and privacy practices.

This means you can focus on what matters: growth, insight—and connection 🙂

Especially as many of our members are already professional carers, healers or working in the personal transformation space.

But you always control what you share and how you participate, and this means you can engage in any way that feels safe and comfortable for you.

As with any group or online space, please share only what feels right for you. And we always recommend not sharing sensitive personal information in public areas.

This isn’t regular social media. It’s a living, breathing space for people who want to practice kindness deeply, consistently—and together.

  • We go deep—into self-kindness, values and what really matters beneath the surface.
  • We’re actually doing something, taking real, collective action to make the world a better place.
  • We’re truly global with members from 30+ countries, united by a shared commitment to kindness.
  • It’s safe. No trolls, no ads, no judgment. Just kindness, learning and support.
  • It’s led with heart. This isn’t a faceless corporation—it’s Emma-Louise and a small team who genuinely care.

At its core, this community is about belonging, practice, transformation and impact.

Hi, I’m Emma-Louise, Emma-Louise holding mug looking up and thinking about the future

I fell in love with personal development back in 2003, after realising that the supposedly ‘successful’ career and life I’d built didn’t make me happy. Thinking it would help, I quit my project management career to become a life coach and moved to Canada (from England)—but I still struggled to be happy.

Like so many people, I had a strong (and sometimes vicious) inner critic that drove me to perfection and caused anxiety and stress. And despite moving half-way around the world my critic followed me: wherever you go, there you are

Slowly, I learned that the answer to managing stress, anxiety, and the inner critic is not to stuff it down, ignore or override it. Instead I had to learn to be kind to myself. And not just any kindness, but fierce kindness. In fact, despite trying countless methods and therapies, Fierce Kindness was the only thing that truly worked.

Fierce Kindness has been calling to me for almost 15 years now. During that time I built The Coaching Tools Company as well as serving my life coaching clients through Simplicity Life Coaching Ltd. I am proud to have helped over a hundred thousand coaches expand and grow their businesses—but Fierce Kindness wouldn’t let go.

Over the last decade I have created and refined the 4Cs—a process for being happier, kinder and more successful in this challenging world.

And finally, I began to see how, beyond using Fierce Kindness to manage our inner critic and set boundaries with others, it could be a way of being that changes the world—each of us courageously taking action to make a difference—with kindness.

We must use the same innate courage and compassion to make the changes that both we—and our world—needs.

This Fierce Kindness Community is a living example of the courage and compassion our world needs, offering inspiration, support and learning to help us all live more happily, more kindly and be that change our world so desperately needs!

Not ready to join our Paid Community Yet?

Learn about Kindness + Get 35 Ways to be Kind to Yourself!

Learn about our 4Cs Fierce Kindness Philosophy

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Final Tidbits

Why we need Fierce Kindness

Kindness and our current form of capitalism (where profits are maximised above everything else) are fundamentally at odds.

Corporations, and even our governments, put profits (or cost savings) before people, before our communities and even before nature, our environment and our world.

So when we make decisions rooted in kindness we’re pushing against deep societal norms—and that takes courage. It means being vulnerable, feeling different, being open to criticism and sometimes being teased.

And that’s why we need Fierce Kindness: because kindness is not the norm.

Our Vision at Fierce Kindness

At Fierce Kindness we envision a kinder world: kinder relationships with ourselves, our loved ones, within our communities and workplaces—and in our world leadership.

We envision a world where kindness is the foundation of human connection and positive change. A world where people choose kindness as a way of life—and kindness is the norm.

And our Kindness Revolution starts with you being kind to you! Because when we’re brave enough to be kind to ourselves, we feel good and we do good. Self-kindness means we can be our best selves in the world. And then we create ripples that change our relationships, our communities and ultimately—our world.

If this resonates with you, come and join us here >>